When life is ‘normal’ we pass over humps with little thought. They are small practical challenges that we look at and think through alternative solutions or just simple tasks that need to be accomplished. When we are emotionally ‘not normal’, those humps are seen as hurdles. That phone call that you just cannot make, those emails that are so hard to open never mind respond to, that job that you just keep putting off, that task that requires small creative alternatives but your stomach churns at the very thought of having to think. Time is a wonderful gift and healing takes time. Those hurdles will become bumps again!
What was ordinarily a hump is today a hurdle