Akila and I walked down the “broadwalk” in Ocean City, USA. Like many who have lost a loved one, we discussed regrets. Things we wished we had said, things we wish we had not said. I did not want to give a glib response to her pain but just listen. In the end the little advice I did give her was to learn from the pain and apply it to the future in her relationships. But here is a point, so quickly our behaviour takes over again and we have fresh regrets maybe with different people. So its time to “walk down broadwalk” again, i.e. step back and look in and evaluate and make course correction, yet again, and make the effort to invest in each other before we are no longer able to do that.